For those Dom/mes that are slow to find what they seek in a sub...remember, You are the Dom/me. You will train Your collared sub to do Your bidding. And, if You have no true experience as a Dom/me, I'm sure that some of the more experienced Dom/mes would answer any questions You may have.
Also, keep in mind that most subs are submissive because they want to feel controlled, commanded, Mastered. They want to please. Many are already involved in a traditional "mutual love relationship" real-time. They need to feel submissive which is why they are in the "D". If You are feeling a little left out, perhaps You could study those Dom/mes who seem to garner the most attention from the subs. And, Good Luck. My fondest wish is for all to discover that which they seek.
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